Last year, I and my husband travelled to Vietnam. A country of painful beauty and equally painful history. Among other places, we visited Vinh Moc, a complex of tunnels strategically situated between the North and the South of the country. In 1966, the villagers of Vinh Moc, in an effort to shelter themselves from the intense bombing of the American forces, dug the tunnels in order to move their village, reaching a depth of 30 metres. The complex grew to include kitchens, rooms for each family and spaces for healthcare. Around 60 families lived in the tunnels until early 1972, and as many as 17 children were born inside them.
We met one of these children. A man of indefinable age, of very very very small height and the weight of a feather. Mentally deficient, deaf and mute. And yet, he was to be our ….. guide!!
He came to me and taking me by the hand we stood in front of a map of the tunnels and with the stick he was holding, he showed us a route of 2.5 km. He then showed us a picture of a baby born in the tunnels, and he was pointing at the picture and then at him, glowing with the most proud of smiles. He gave us torches and he started walking, semi-flying, followed by us, the bewildered foreigners, in this meander of dark, mud and humidity. He showed us everything, he told us what no other speaking, mentally unimpaired man, could ever tell us. We learnt where exactly he was born, where those people down there, used to eat, how they used to entertain themselves, what they did when the skies were raining bombs above their heads. Seeing me under an extreme emotional state, because of a claustrophobic feeling that came upon me, and the unimaginable stories that were unfolding before me, he consoled me with care, and reassured me that there was no reason to be afraid and sad, and that he was there to protect us, and he made me laugh changing the tears of panic into tears of joy. And we did not exchange even a single word.
Communication between human beings is beyond words. Communication and understanding is beyond languages. Languages are arbitrarily shaped tools, manufactured by the trembling hands of the peoples, unreliable and risky.
Behind the different forms of the letters, behind the way in which the present or past tense is formed, behind the conjugations of verbs and nouns, and behind the synonyms and antonyms and all the –yms of the world, lies a global undeniable truth: that languages serve the same purposes. They meet the same human needs. They express sentiments felt by the man as a living species, not as a member of a specific geographical community. Whether you say die, perish, pass away, mourir or умереть, no tears can be uncried, no loss can be undone and the event is equally irrevocable.
The beauty of a nicely structured sentence, the linguistic tricks, the mental struggle to find the exactly appropriate word and put it at the exactly appropriate place, the identification of hidden messages, must not be taken as a commonplace for everyone. The mechanisms of language are intrinsic, unconceivable, beyond any control. It is the job of linguists, translators, writers or scholars to deal with all these things. All the others only have to appreciate and search for the essence of languages, which is no other than the value of being understood.
